There is no wrong way to use affirmation charms or word charms. There are many ways and many reasons for using affirmation charms. One of my favorite ways to use word charms is to use them as a reminder of keywords in a verse, lyric or quote.
Here is an example of what I am talking about. Look at this quote that talks about choices:
"Don't make a decision based solely on popularity. Just because other people are doing it doesn't mean it's the best choice for you." (Author Unknown) I like quotes and thoughts about choice and consequences. In the collection of word charms (over 200 words or phrases) their is one that has "Choice" engraved on the sterling silver word charm.
Who would have thought that there is a sterling silver pendant or charm for "Choice". To select this Choice charm take a look at Choice charm. The choice pendant is just like these photo examples except the word "Choice" is engraved on both sides of the charm.